25th May 2010
‘The Art of Discussion’ by P.H. Veridian
The Art of Discussion
A truly good discussion is a true art form and takes great skill to accomplish. It takes a quality topic, two or more well educated (in the topic) individuals, a sense of mutual understanding and the acceptance of idea’s between the parties. An argument is not the failure of discussion, it is the passionate expression of discussion. Arguments are important as they show the strong feelings we have for a subject, which conveys more than words. However, too much passion can throw us into a blind rage where discussion stops, when this happens we are often only left with our most carnal instincts. We either fight back, expressing our views more passionately further escalating the situation or we simply walk away giving ourselves time to calm down. Sound familiar? When there is trouble our options are Fight or Flight. Amazingly these trends are incorporated into all of our responses to problems. Verbal, physical and even our mental battles. Verbal and Physical examples are obvious, we were all teens and we all went to high school, let’s not dredge up those old memories. An example of a mental battle we may run away from or fight would be the consideration of the death of an older or very young family member. These are discussions we often refuse to have within our own minds.
The Art of Discussion
A truly good discussion is a true art form and takes great skill to accomplish. It takes a quality topic, two or more well educated (in the topic) individuals, a sense of mutual understanding and the acceptance of idea’s between the parties. An argument is not the failure of discussion, it is the passionate expression of discussion. Arguments are important as they show the strong feelings we have for a subject, which conveys more than words. However, too much passion can throw us into a blind rage where discussion stops, when this happens we are often only left with our most carnal instincts. We either fight back, expressing our views more passionately further escalating the situation or we simply walk away giving ourselves time to calm down. Sound familiar? When there is trouble our options are Fight or Flight. Amazingly these trends are incorporated into all of our responses to problems. Verbal, physical and even our mental battles. Verbal and Physical examples are obvious, we were all teens and we all went to high school, let’s not dredge up those old memories. An example of a mental battle we may run away from or fight would be the consideration of the death of an older or very young family member. These are discussions we often refuse to have within our own minds.
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